What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence, without a standard kind and fixed result. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, constantly with respect for (shared) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of heart and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, ecstatic state of being. The result is typically a terrific physical, psychological well-being. Usually, the receiver is very unwinded, wonderfully flowing and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch complete of attention and existence. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Although most touch will happen through the hands (or body to body) it is actually enjoy that touches. The hands of the provider are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly concentrated on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active as well as feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Loaded with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence. Both the provider and the receiver are entirely present. Do not consider yesterday or tomorrow. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. A very mindful touch from the heart. Get also really consciously, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are in fact out of the question. Whatever happens in the moment, completely consciousness, adoringly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or going to sleep is also not intended (still, when that's what you need, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. You never ever understand how it will turn out. It is not the strategy or the wanted series of massaging that is necessary, it has to do with exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? Exactly what benefits her/him? Love knows what to do, love always has an appropriate response. And so the massage will be precisely that what is required. Enough is that the giver exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own strategy, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason often take a really unexpected course. Everything suits a bigger whole. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the initial step in a fantastic development.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, but considering that the #MeToo revelations, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits beforehand
It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage need to always be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is also totally okay (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation freely
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life focused on growing in love and awareness. In a flash you can end up being enlightened (by 1000% surrender), however normally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands different techniques to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no function other than self-realization: restoring the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological wellness
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally good, often tasty. We, for that reason, invite you to completely take pleasure in receiving ánd offering a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have specific practices and techniques in common. Yet there is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (targeted at pleasure complete satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (intended at recovery).
Well because you are truly extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is a profession apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive explanation, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stick out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in what they themselves discover pleasant, fun, preferable. A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your very own "needs", keep away from your own concerns and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Nothing has actually to be done, absolutely nothing is needed! Once again, do not aim to enforce anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Perhaps you are disappointed when somebody drops off to sleep. You may not be waiting on a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no objective. No desired outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Don't work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Regard borders, set clear borders in advance. Our masseuses are mainly really open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being aroused is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can come up.
* Look out to restored freezing minutes. Prevent limitations from being crossed again.
* Action by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and provide integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply don't rush to the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (however you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (in some cases entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner or even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible healing impact. It is possible that obstructions, psychological injuries pertain to the surface. There may be a psychological Source release, including physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Although tantra massage is not the like recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you discover what it is like to love yourself.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a terrific physical, psychological wellness (of both).